【大天使加百利】2013年12月10日《恒常地解救他人是一种控制》

《恒常地解救他人是一种控制》

原文：http://trinityesoterics.com/2013/12/10/daily-message-tuesday-december-10-2013/

翻译：Nick Chan

Do you have a habit of doing things for others that they can easily do for themselves? Do you dive in to “fix” things before you are even asked for assistance? Do you feel you need to do things yourself in order for them to be done properly? Do you fear people will cease to need you and will reject you if you stop carrying their load for them? Do you feel that love means doing for others and sacrificing yourself?

你对否习惯帮助别人做他们可以轻易完成的事情？你是否埋头“修复”事物，甚至在你被请求协助前？你是否感到需要自己去做事情以便它们被适当地完成？你是否担心人们不再需要你，会拒绝你，如果你停止为他们肩负重担？你是否认为爱就是为他人做事并牺牲你自己？

Dear Ones, if you think that people will fall on their faces if you do not continually do things for them, you are selling them short and blocking them from their own personal empowerment. You are stunting their growth and their experiences. Further, you are robbing them of the opportunity to demonstrate their unconditional love for you, because you are working on the premise that their love and acceptance is conditional upon you doing things for them. Perpetually rescuing others is a form of control. It supports weakness and victim consciousness.

亲爱的一们，如果你认为如果你不经常地为他人做事情他们就会拉下脸，你在向他们出售短暂的个人授权并阻止了他们得到自己的个人授权。你在妨碍他们的成长和体验。此外，你在夺取他们的机会去向你展示他们无条件地爱，因为你致力于前提---他们的爱与接纳取决于你为他们做的事情。恒常地解救他人是一种控制。这会支持软弱和受害者意识。

Encouragement, on the other hand, along with acceptance and allowing, supports faith, authentic power, growth and confidence. Lift others up by letting them know absolutely that you are lovingly there for them should they need you, but you have complete trust that they can handle things and shine and thrive on their own. Lend your help if asked, but stay secure in the fact that the entire universe is there to assist each and every person. The system works the same for every soul on the planet and you are all completely qualified to bloom and grow in your own unique way. ~Archangel Gabriel

鼓励，另一方面，连同接纳与允许、支持信念、真正的力量、成长和信心。通过让他人知晓你亲切地会出现在他们需要你的时刻，但你完全相信他们可以自己处理事情并闪耀和成长来提升他们。在请求帮助的时候再提供，但要保持稳当，在整个宇宙都在协助每个人的事实中。系统适用于每个灵魂，你们都有资格在你独特的方式中绽放和成长。~大天使加百利

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